How to Love Your Parents
Even if you think that your parents are mean- spirited(心地吝啬的)at times,loving your parents is a normal and fulfilling part of life.Youlove them for the fact that they created you,raised you,and are in part asource of who you are.Here are some ways to love your parents.
Tell them you love them every morning.

A gentle“good morning " and“I love you"will warm a coldestheart.Remember that they brought you into this world.Without yourparents, you might still wander at an unknown corner in an unknownworld.
Respect them more and cherish(怀念)these moments.

You can use these moments to learn from them,preparing yourselffor when you're off on your own.It's OK to get angry but angry actionsdon't help you or your parents.Act calmly,cool off,write down yourfeelings,or talk to a friend.After this,share your feelings with yourparents.
Obey their requests.

It will make your attitude better and earn you more respect fromthem.It may seem like you are going through hell when you don't getwhat you want or you have to clean.However,you had better rememberthey keep a roof over your head when it's cold,raining,snowing,or toohot.Understand that parents are human beings and makemistakes.Forgiveness is the key.Since you can forgive your friends,whynot forgive your parents?
Keep company with them.

Do things with your parents like watching TV,or go somewherewith them.Anyway spend as much time with them as you can.Listen totheir old stories and learn from them.You will find they are your teachersin this way or another.
Some people simply may not be able to love their parents. There canbe realistic reasons for this,family violence(暴力)for example.Seek helpif you are being abused(虐待)in any way.Parents do not have a right toharm you.